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That bad huh smoke?
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Mon Oct 08, 2007 12:54 am Post subject:
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 no i have the best of both sides.
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| ^sM()k3© wrote: | | no i have the best of both sides. |
| Crazychickenboy wrote: | | In both of the situations once they came back to you turn the confident nice guy, but don’t take any crap from them call them on it and don't be affraid to argue your point.. That’s what they want. |
| {uZa}Innocent wrote: | | Then again we have the semi nice/semi asshole guys. I guess this is what you want to shoot for. |
Ahh, So you have both sides  So you fit right in where you need to be. I guess this is where the "Ya Bastard" comes in
You play selectively.
Not a true asshole, but not the perfect nice guy either.
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Mon Oct 08, 2007 8:38 am Post subject:
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| {uZa}Canadian Girl wrote: | | God may have created man before woman, but there is always a rough draft before the masterpiece. |
Everything God created was more amazing than the previous.
I believe that woman was the pinnacle of all that God created.
You are correct, woman is the masterpiece.
I would rather have a woman over a man any day.
Men and women are different as we all know.
Sometimes I think my wife does some really crazy things;
Buy more clothes, another pair of shoes, ect... 
I'm sure I do things that she thinks are crazy;
Another new fishing pole, more lures, more PC parts, ect... 
I just remind myself that I am glad she's not just like me.
If she ever becomes like me, then that will be a step down for her.
I like myself, but I love my wife. 
After reading all the posts in this thread, I'm glad I'm not dating.
You all make it sound way too difficult.
I met my wife at church.
Our church had another one merge with it.
She came with the merger.
Am I an "A"hole or a nice guy?
I've got the woman of my dreams, so I just call me lucky!
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Mon Oct 08, 2007 11:47 am Post subject:
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| {uZa}Studdog wrote: | I met my wife at church.
Our church had another one merge with it.
She came with the merger.
Am I an "A"hole or a nice guy?
I've got the woman of my dreams, so I just call me lucky! |
Great Post Studdog
See, I believe that you fall into one of the exceptions. I have seen it many times, that when interactions happen through a religious environment, most of the time the nice guy/asshole attributes do not really apply. Meeting though a religious group, or any other religious/morally based social club is the way to go. The rules of engagement here are completely different.
I am not talking about the hypocrites who go to mass on a Saturday or Sunday, and then go buck wild that night after in the clubs, bars, streets, parties and so on. This part goes back to the asshole/nice guy, or the random on the street rendezvous. You know those who can talk the talk, but do not walk the walk.
So Studdog, I would say your safe and in the semi area.
Just like everything else, there are a few exceptions, and your case brings one up. Most of the time everyone isn't so lucky.....
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Tue Oct 09, 2007 9:05 am Post subject:
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Taken From: http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1689.html
Hey Alice...
Just a quick question: why is it that nice guys always finish last? I've tried being nice all my life (nineteen yrs) to women, yet I get nothing; yet if some guy who treats them really badly comes in, they're the ones who end up with a girlfriend, and me with squat. What's the deal?!
Thanks
Dear Nice guy,
Whatever you do, don't stop being nice! Just knowing that you're out there treating people right makes Alice's hard drive hum with hope and inspiration. Being yourself may not have yielded a girlfriend, yet, but genuinely nice guys and gals (and you know who you are) develop their self-esteem, their integrity, their spirits, and their souls in ways that will keep them coming in first for a long time. Of course, we want companionship for validation and love and much more, but since we determine in what place we finish, can't that place also be first?
So, why do so many of us chase after those who treat us wrong? Some counselors might say it's because we don't respect ourselves enough — we don't feel deserving of Mr./Ms. Niceperson and are either blind to being treated badly, or are willing to take it as the price paid for not being so great ourselves. Many women in many cultures "take it" all the time because sociocultural training and expectations don't support women who assert themselves to men. In a strange way, pursuing and sticking with the not-so-nice partners can validate a belief held by some that they will never be in a successful relationship. Could these thoughts and actions also trickle down from parents who modeled similar behaviors? The list of possibilities goes on and can include fears about getting too close or too intimate with someone; in theory, it's easier to do this with nice guys. And let's not forget that some like the challenge of "winning" a partner's attention and affection, and overvalue even the little successes that in total rarely add up to the healthy, whole relationships that we desire and deserve.
Well, now that we've done some armchair psychoanalysis, maybe you feel that you've got a little more than squat — even if it's not holding your hand and kissing you goodnight. If you still believe that nice guys finish last, okay, but hopefully they're more likely to finish feeling good.
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Wed Oct 10, 2007 3:32 am Post subject:
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i gotta stop looking at this thread 
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Conscia mens recti, famae mendacia ridet.
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Wed Oct 10, 2007 2:21 pm Post subject:
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| ^sM()k3© wrote: | | i gotta stop looking at this thread |
LOL Why smoke? Keep thinking about this thread and just pass the girl up without even saying a word now? Just passing up the foreseen outcome?
Sad, but true, but keep on trying.
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| ^sM()k3© wrote: | | umm actually we both know how we feel about each other but there is a huge wall in the way. |
Your gonna need Reagan to help you with that wall
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Wed Oct 10, 2007 10:36 pm Post subject:
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| ^sM()k3© wrote: | | umm actually we both know how we feel about each other but there is a huge wall in the way. |
First of all who is we? LOL J/K
You work buddy? Is that it, or someone else?
Work could be the big wall.... Just be an asshole one day at work and quit, lol then go back just to visit. J/K
What happen to this approach?
| ^sM()k3© wrote: | | i always just invite the girl over for italian meatballs and sausage. |
LOL
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Wed Oct 10, 2007 11:18 pm Post subject:
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| sorry if it seemed like i snapped just read that yah a girl i work with.
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Wed Oct 10, 2007 11:19 pm Post subject:
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| {uZa}Innocent wrote: |
What happen to this approach?
| ^sM()k3© wrote: | | i always just invite the girl over for italian meatballs and sausage. |
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